"I think that's one of the problems with the world today, nobody knows who they are. Everyone is running around looking for an identity, or trying to borrow one, only they don't know it. They actually think they know who they are and what they are and what are they? They're just a bunch of schleppers... who have no idea what a search for personal truth and identity really is, which would be all right if they didn't get in your way, but they insist that they know everything and that if you don't live their way then you're not living properly and they want to take your space away... they actually want to somehow get into your space and live in it and change it or destroy it... they just can't believe that you know what you are doing and that you have your own identity and space and that you are happy and content with it. You see, that's the problem right there. If they could see that then they wouldn't have to feel threatened and feel that they have to destroy you before you destroy them. They just can't get it through their philistine heads that you are happy where you are and don't want to have anything to do with them. My space is mine and that's enough for me." - Hubery Selby Jr.'s Requiem for a Dream

Read those words.

Learn from them.